Tips for Body language? No no, RULES for body language

There are just 3 simple yet very hard rules that I follow when learning Body language.

• Combine multiple gestures.
• Gestures should be considered in the context in which they occur.
• Apply Body language to yourself.

The first two rules are the key to accurately interpreting attitudes through body language.

You are only blinding yourself on relying on a single gesture. Read on whole, rely on whole.

The context is very important. Its a chill winter day, you see a man with arms and legs tightly crossed. Remember he is not being defensive, just cold.

"huh? Why is he staring at me? 

I am freezing out here"

These rule are what that separates novice from expert.

Imagine you asked your friends to buy some chocolates for you from the near by shop. And he goes with his hand placed on his neck giving a soft smile saying "Sure dude, why not?". 

And here you are thinking.. "Now, he is just saying that and a fake smile? Seriously, Who does he think he is trying to fool? He really thinks its a pain in the back. muhahahahah, I am totally an expert in body language". Well yeah, this is totally a novice's thinking. 

An expert would not only conclude with just a single gesture of the hand on the neck, but would consider the situation and the other gestures too!! In reality, Your friend says "Sure dude, why not?" with a smile, his palm out and yeah, with his hand on the neck. And the situation, Poor guy has a neck pain.

"Guess i'll make him get some cheese later"  

The third rule is the golden rule of all!!! I have read in articles and books that the best way to learn Body language is to read people where ever you go. WRONG. Well, that is very true though. Its a good way. But you can't completely trust those readings because mostly you are left blank without any context or multiple gestures.

So, what i would prefer my readers to do is read themselves. No one knows better about you than you yourself. Pay attention to who you are where ever you go. Learn from your own gestures. You simply have everything you need, multiple gestures.. context? how about deep inner feelings damn it!! :P

What you have learnt:

• Arms and legs tightly crossed - Defensive
• Hand on the neck - Pain in the back
• Palms out -  Open and honest approach

"I did not eat those chocolates your friend

bought for you. Trust me dude"

Share your joys/suggestions/doubts through your comments.

Cheers

Body Language

Body language, Humans send and interpret such signals almost entirely subconsciously. Its been there forever passed over generations. There are lot of things people agree to when their body shows the opposite. It is one language you can rely on when mastered. For example, Politicians! Its very much fun to catch them red handed live. Most people know when the politician is lying and call it a hunch. We call it Body Language.

Extreme boredom :D

Its most useful for a salesman people say, but I would consider it useful at all places at all parts of life. At home, at work, at school, everywhere!! Love, hatred, Bored, every feeling!! From knowing when a child broke a vase to a murderer with a simple scratch to nose or the eyes is Body language. Its almost like mind reading.

The thing is it works even on animals!! 

Don't you just know that he is angry? Hunch? Common sense? 

NO, its body language :P

Beware, there are people who fake body language as well. Yeah, like me :D Train yourself, learn to read more than just the obvious body language, become an expert through our articles in the blog and figure me and all others out :)

Feel free to encourage the 2frndz crew through your comments.


What you learnt:

• Hand to the cheeks like Mr. Bush - BORED
• And for Mr. Cat, guess its not after all Body language. Human instinct maybe? :P

Basic Computer Management

If you're a Windows user, you'll notice your computer slower day by day, start-up takes longer, unnecessary programs open up once the computer boots, and the list goes on and on. Then one day you can't take it any longer and you are forced to reinstall Windows all over again. You'll have to back-up all your data, find that installation CD, dig deep inside your brain for the license key, set aside a day. Now who's got the time!!

  
Well thankfully there are quite a number of little steps that can prevent that.

First comes an efficient anti-virus software. You really don't have to shell out huge amounts of cash for this. Avast! Free anti- virus is a great freebie.

One of the best features is the Sandbox. As long as Avast! is running, any malicious program can be opened inside this Sandbox. It basically acts as a Virtual system.

So say you accidentally opened a potentially hazardous program, Avast! will detect it for you and prompt you to open it in Sandbox. This way your data remains secure and you can still run the program. Now say the program wasn't a threat, well this time simply click on the "open normally" option when the prompt opens up and you're good to go. Avast! also has a real time shields which you can toggle on and off. So programs which you don't want Avast! to scan can be selected. This will help in a faster performance as you don't have Avast! opening up every time.

Also you might want to turn auto-updates off, and just manually update about every week or so.

Most of the times when Windows slows down is because a few drivers, .dll files, etc. are deleted. A great way to ensure this doesn't happen is to download a system manager program. DriverWhiz is a one of the best ones out there. It's a very simple and straightforward program to use.

A nice little addition is the "Easy Migration". It helps you make a driver CD for any destination operating system. A nice tool to have if you're upgrading your OS.

If all those measures don't work out for you, the best thing to do is to reinstall. If you do decide to do that, make sure you partition your hard disk(it will be an option when you run your re-installation CD). And make sure to save all your data on your newly created drive. This way even if Windows annoys you, you can easily reinstall Windows only on C Drive and still have all your data safe without needing to take a back-up.
Follow these small measures and you can enjoy a very fast and peaceful Windows experience. :)

2Frndz

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